Cant StandThis Roller Coaster

[John170]

thanks spellfire. i think she started pulling back with the goin out and sex thing but i pushed a lil bit and she pulled away so im gonna back off again

[MrBond]

"think im gonna back off a little with the sex thing and try to concentrate more of some emotional connection."

Gee that sounds familiar.

Have you read the 5 Love Languages? Do that to start the emotional connection going. Gently flirt with her without it leading to sex on your part. Compliment her alot, especially in front of friends or family when you're together. Even just telling her something like she has the most amazing eyes would help.

Emotional needs also includes the romance. Romance not sex.

[John170]

ur right bond i agree there is just soooooo much physical attraction between us kinda hard.

[John170]

i did the eye thing the other day. lol told her that her eyes hooked me and her ass reeled me in hahahahahaha

[MrBond]

Very good.

Think of your sitch like her being a kid in a candy store. She'll want it more when she feels it's not always going to be available to her. That's what she wants to experience with the D, but you don't have to be D to get that feeling.

[John170]

bond i can actually see what your saying in her now. like today i texted her and said good morning and ask if she was feeling better and that it. she then text me about things she know i already know about. its actually a pretty fun game when u learn how to play it

[John170]

i think the next time she starts the sex texting thing im gonna say baby id really like to talk to u but i got a long day tomorrow maybe some other time.

[John170]

whats funny is i watch my buddy when his gf leaves and he dont give a crap and just starts dating other women. within a few weeks she is begging back.

[John170]

well we talked last night just the usual stuff. im going to meet with my attorney tomorrow to go over her divorce demands. she says she still wants to see me and do stuff with the kids after all this is over. i dont know about that yet i think its time to just completely cut her off.

[John170]

she also says if were divorced it wouldn't allow me to be so controlling. i said fine if thats what u want.