Starting a new thread to keep my journal going in the hope that some day my posts will show up in less than 48-hours.

My story should be familiar. WAW dropped the ILYBINILWY in October 2010, I snooped around and saw she was spending hours per week on the phone with Ex BF from 20 years ago she re-connected with on Facebook. The OM is going thru M difficulties and is heading for D. My W and OM have been communicating for 8 to 10 months. I blundered around for a few months until finding this Forum and reading DB. I just bought DR a week or two ago and am reading through it.
I'm 2 or 3 weeks into my 180, GAL, and Loveing detachment.
Wish me luck.


Me 46 W 43
M 17
S 14
D 11
ILYB 9/2010
EA began July/August 2010 ?
PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ?
I began DB in Jan 2011
I filed 7/12/11
Kids and I moved out 7/30/11
I'm in it for the kids and me.