IMO you shouldn't have responded.

It isn't an "olive branch" or anything. It's a test to be sure you're still under his thumb. He wants to be sure his needs are met while not having to meet yours.

You shouldn't have responded until he actually sent you a couple more messages. You have to show him that you DON'T NEED him. The sooner you do that, the sooner he's going to get interested.

He will flip it back on you again, saying that you don't care, but don't listen to it!

Think about it this way. He's like a spoiled teenager right now and you are his parent. He can do whatever he wants, treats you however he feels, but when you leave him to do his own laundry, he'll whine and say how much you're hurting him and that you don't love him. Blah blah blah.

His actions speak louder than words. You're not doing anything to hurt the sitch or the M. All you're doing is not jumping whenever he snaps or doesn't snap his fingers.

Trust me. The next time he sends a message, don't respond until his third. Let him start wondering what YOU are doing and why you aren't seeing to his needs. See to yours first.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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