It sounds like the changes you are making are working. Just keep working on the things you have mentioned (not being controlling being a big one).
Other than that, I wouldn't read too much into it. Trying to analyze and figure out her every action is a form of being controlling in and of itself.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
