I can feel your pain lostmiss97. I'm so sorry you have to go thru this. The one thing I am having a difficult time with is how to read the X....it seems that no matter what we do.....they are always in the control seat. Makes it a painful experience for us, I think.
I think the limbo of it all is really difficult. I agree with TulsaTime.....commitment has a different meaning to people. It's harder for those of us who take this word seriously. And how does one make the other person have any insight to their craziness?
I don't have kids but I can only imagine how difficult that makes the entire situation.
I just wanted to respond to let you know that I understand your roller coaster. You are not alone....
Hoping you have had some peaceful time and self promoting time.
M 5yrs D 9/2009 Ex-H moved back in - 5/2010 Ex-H left again 1/2011 exH remarried - first week Feb 2011 I found out - 2/22/2011