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First, I know I'll take a beating but... I went out with OW last night. I know, I know. She texted me late afternoon, had a bad day at work and wanted to go get a beer. It is just hard, here I am, go home to an empty house or go out and get a beer and have a good time?

how about go work out. then go have some fun.


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While we were out I got multiple text from the W. The first, "Hey, I finally got on Words with Friends, how do I set up a game?" (Words with Friends is a scrabble type game on the iphone)

Then, a pic of D with a caption, and then a video of D at the park going down a slide, another short text to go with that.

My W did that to me when she knew I was on vacation. She sent me pics if the kids at the beach. I didn't respond, you shouldn't have either.

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Now this is weird...We had talked about words with friends a while back, and I set up a game. She already had a profile, but she never responded to my game request. Now she "just set it up?" IDK.


She is fishing here, testing to see if out will come running back to her. You failed the test, you helped her with something trivial. SHe now knows she still has you.

Get back to NC, You will be tested again.
The next time something seems weird to you, stop and think.
Then know she is testing you.
These events need to be instant triggers to your brain.

Stop settling for these little crumbs.

you can do it. gr8


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