Gritter that is the book we are reading together on the phone.
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It has been a while but the most profound part for me was reading toward the front I think about the role of the parent/child.
This is the section we covered yesterday.
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You did it because you feared by not saying it she may move further away.
My W love language is words of assurance. I did it mainly for her not to get the impression i had moved on and hit the delete button on her, which is more in tune with what I would normally do. I think she needed the assurance that I had not delete the feeling of getting back together.
Something Jody told me awhile back..
Tone down the "your life is great approach" it will only validate that you really did not need her. Your managing but you miss her.
