Hi Hope - I'd go with option 2... it goes with everything else that you've been doing this morning, i.e., being happy, not bothered with H actions, etc. I know that it doesn't hold him accountable to anything, but do either of the other 2 options?

Be the change that you want to see Hope. I know that it is hard when you are not seeing results, but it is the higher road.

Lastly, no, you posting that stuff on FB was not wrong. Manipulative? Yes. Wrong? Absolutely not. FB is great for DBing IMO!

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Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce