That sounds nice. And a 2 year commitment! Sounds very good. I guess she is thinking of a family therapist to include SS. I still think the Retrouvaille weekend is what you need to push not just OM, but the idea of other men out of her heart, and move back into a committed relationship. Slow and steady is good, but there's nothing like a high intensity push to get people motivated.
Lotus - I am still considering Retrouvaille in addition to MC here in Denver. Actually, what I am thinking is Retrouvaille, Solution Based MC for W and I, and then a separate family child therapist for SS, W and I. My IC worked with SS for a while before W and I separated. So we'll probably continue on with him. My concern is being able to afford all of this therapy! LOL I will figure it out though.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
I will figure it out though.