MLC is a good place. I have never known if my H was really MLC or not, but I still got what I thought was amazing input there.
Nice job on the phone call.
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grace, i have looked for your sitch, but did not find the resolution......
This is a real knee slapper You didn't find a resolution because....drum roll please.....there isn't one.
I don't mean to sound flip. The truth is he emotionally divorced me before he moved out.
I've been here 4 years and while H moved out 15 months post bomb...that's all that has ever happened. No filing of any kind. Does that mean anything? Sorry, but in my case it doesn't. Other than he is lazy or waiting or whatever and I'm not interested in filing myself. If and when I choose differently, I will act accordingly.
One thing I really need to make clear though. This whole thing has taught me alot about who I am, what I want and how to get there. It has brought me closer to my D's and oddly, given me a perspective that I have really benefitted from with my D16.
We have the choice to learn and grow or not. Be kind to yourself though. It takes time, patience and forgiveness. Especially for yourslef.
You didn't find a resolution because....drum roll please.....there isn't one. 