I would want to be loved by someone I can count on. Somebody who is consistent and reliable. Somebody I can trust.
Somebody who can take care of their Self, and who doesn't "need" me for anything.
Somebody who is completely self-sufficient, complete, and whole withing their Self.
Someone who is happy with their Self.
Someone who is so confident and secure within their self that they are able give there all whenever it is required, without fear, without holding back...
And without hedging their bets.
Someone who is willing and able to go all in with me. Someone who is willing and able to keep up and go the distance with me. Someone who is willing and able to do their part and carry their own weight and work with me and listen to me and believe in me and trust me.
Completely.
It actually works alot better to love someone in ways that makes them feel loved.
Read His Needs/Her Needs and The Five Love Languages.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.