Geeze, I'd take a little sex at this point. My W makes a disgusted gesture anytime I even remotely touch her.

I guess if she really isn't attracted to me, I'm not going to be able to change that. It would seem that in last 5 years or so she's lost any sort of attraction to me since she almost never initiated sex.

So I guess for you, the fact that she's initiating means she's at least physically attracted to you which normally comes before the emotional connection anyways...


Me - 34
W - 33
M - 8 years
T - 15 years
D7, D5, D2
Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY"
W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011