Geeze, I'd take a little sex at this point. My W makes a disgusted gesture anytime I even remotely touch her.
I guess if she really isn't attracted to me, I'm not going to be able to change that. It would seem that in last 5 years or so she's lost any sort of attraction to me since she almost never initiated sex.
So I guess for you, the fact that she's initiating means she's at least physically attracted to you which normally comes before the emotional connection anyways...
Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011