Obviously you're a very intelligent man. I have to ask if you ever read Divorce Remedy or the MLC resources that Cadet sent you the links for?
This is not a short or easy process for the MLCer. It is more often measured in years vs. months. Once the train has gone off the track for the MLCer it takes a long time to get it back on there.
The question is, do you have the stamina to out last your wife's MLC? There are no guarantees on how it will all end. The one thing you do have is time to work on yourself so you don't repeat the same mistakes in your next relationship, whether it's with your W or someone else.
I agree with you about remaining positive and upbeat, Bobby. I also think from what you've wrote that your W is definitely watching what you're doing. She is still very interested in your life. Maybe you're not doing quite what she expected you'd do when she left...
