Thank you for all you contribute to myself and other people.
I want to be sure I am understanding what you are saying, and what you are saying is frying my circuits a little.
I feel I would like to be loved when I am peaceful and content...
I feel I would like to be loved even more when I am afraid.
So it sounds to me like you are suggesting that when my wife (or perhaps any WAS) is feeling scared and afraid, that is when they need it the most.
And it is in these times of distress that Love has it's greatest power.
I have tears of release now. You have helped me see things more clearly. I am STILL not being as loving and supportive of my wife as I need to be every moment. I am still not as attuned and congruent as I need to be in order to go the distance. I am still kidding myself that I'm totally committed. I'm still focused on my fears.
What do you mean
"Lay up" ?
I am being the possibility of:
1) Integrity 2) Loving myself completely. 3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.
