Update ..... I haven't been on much. I am just sooo busy ... and really just don't feel that concerned about W right now. She's her own mess now.
We did have a rough weekend though. I went out with a budyy on Sat night. We just hung out and talked about everything. His W split his family with 2 kids up so she could go be a druggy and a hussy. So, mostly just commiserating. Just thinking about how this woman could do that to a family with young kids caused so much anger to well up in me. I can't respect that woman. Anyway, I got home around 1:00 in the morning.
Next day, W says she couldn't sleep last night because she was worried where I was and what I was up to. ... huh? Why? You want out, lady.
Sunday, we got together with a big group of couple friends of ours. Only one person there knows W intends to separate. Just seeing how the wives were nice to each other ...... and knowing these kids would grow up in a house like the one I grew up in ... I just got PISSED at W.
On the way home, she brought something about my friend's sitch up. Well, it turned into me saying how much I couldn't respect this woman ... and how I believe your legacy is what you do. you are what you do. What you say ..... that's BS. If somebody wants to know what kind of person you were .... they should just look at what you did. And, I said that it infuriates me that my friend has to almost lie to his kids about why him and mommy don't live together when the real answer was mommy is a screwed up, selfish, weak person.
Well, W got really upset. And then was asking me if I was going to tell our D that W was a bad person.
Anyway .... I know ... not the best DBing. But, I'm just sick of all this. Its not my job to protect W from reality. If she breaks up this family .... she is a bad person. Sorry honey.
B.I.T.S
Formerly known as onStepAtATime Me:31 W:31 T:13 yrs M:8 yrs D: 20 months ILYBNILWY: 9/22/10 "I want a separation" 1/05/11