Originally Posted By: 2step
I will pay it forward regardless of what happens


You will.

You are making your way through this 2step.

And when you do you will want to help others get there because

>>>>>>>>FLUFFY BUNNY ALERT<<<<<<<<<<

You will want them to see the truth that you have learned.

As you have seen there is great power and healing to this process

Pay it forward.

Now

I know you think that your sitch is special and it is to some degree

We are all as special and unique as snow flakes (nickel J3B)

Look

Your W is really trying to figure this out.

She really is trust me.

You have always been there to save her. To take care of things.

Your first instinct? Let's buy the house!

Fixes everything. Job is not going well...fix.

Did you read 5 loves languages?

It has been a while but the most profound part for me was reading toward the front I think about the role of the parent/child.

All I am saying is don't be so eager to placate her. Fix.

I am going to call you out on the text to her.

I don't need an answer. You need to answer yourself honestly.

You did it because you feared by not saying it she may move further away.

Well she needs to move further away from the old patterns of your M and so do you. You say you know your W. You know her in the old M.

And which 2step is showing up when you say those things?

Be honest.

You can lie to us.
You can lie to yourself.
You believe them and you have failed.

Tough day for you I know my friend but we don't let you hide from yourself.

Your best self.

So

Dust yourself off and get back on the pony.

Originally Posted By: fisherman
Boogie


...really "boogie" Fish? WTF? smile

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am