We are what we think. I had lots of learning opportunities (ahem) and finally learned to take them as just that, recognize I am human and let it go. If you can treat yourself like your best friend and not beat yourself up with woulda, coulda, shoulda's it's all good.
I hope your Dad is doing ok.
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then went out to dinner like a nice "normal" family...only difference is he drops us off and leaves
As hard as it is that your H drops you off and leaves, it gives you a break. I found it much more difficult with my H at home (he was here 15 months post bomb).
