Another question....is there such thing as a "mild" or "moderate" vs "severe" MLC? My H fits the mold, but he seems to be less severe and crazy than others I'm reading about here. Or is worse stuff coming down the pipeline? He seems to really realize how deep his issues are and wants to work on himself. What stage would that put him in? The comment about his conscience being full makes me wonder if depression is setting in.....Any thoughts?


Me- 35
H- 36
M- 7
T- 9
D3, D5
Bomb 1/21/11
EA/PA began 12/10?
Discovered A 3/2/11
S- 3/3/11
OW gone- 4/27/11
H says he wants to reconcile, but lacking action