Seeking answers, I talked to my coach yesterday and she came to the same conclusion, maybe LDS. On a side note, I realized with her help and more on my own today, that there might be hope for us than I thought. I keep listening to his words, but not always seeing what he is doing. If I was to ask about our future, he would be pessimistic; saying he doesn't think our marriage can be fixed, not sure if he wants to, not sure MC will help etc. However, he signed our son up for summer hockey (orginal plan was for us to separate in June, and I was moving back to our home town with the kids) He is trying really hard to keep in touch with me through out the day, and when I tell him something is bothering me, he usually tries to change his behavior right away. He has done anything I have asked of him, and he has offered to do even more. This is all in the last couple of weeks. He went out tonight with some of his friends and I was worried about it; having trust issues with him. He was great, he let me tell him my fears (the old me would have worried in silence) and he said I was free to come check up on him or call him as many times as I need. I'm sure everyone knows how easy it is to get caught up in how long this journey has been, and how much more there could be,and not knowing the end. I obviously could see the changes, but I was still so focused on his words, and what still has to be fixed. When I first started DB, I was always muttering in my head the "Don't listen to anything they say..." Obviously I forgot that along the way. Hopefully the changes are a sign of more to come. Today is a good day...sending the same vibes to everyone else...
Me-36 H-37 D11 S8 S6 M9 T19 ILYNILWY 11/10 discover EA 02/11 discover EA is really PA/H moved out 03/11 H wants to go to counselling,piecing 12/11 Find out still OW(plural), I'm officially done/detached 04/12