About the height thing: I agree that its not meant to be an insult or a direct show of disrespect. Its a sign of her changed priorities.
My mom is taller than my dad, and she loves heels. At first she avoided heels, but as their M matured, she started to wear them more, I think because her attention shifted from wanting to pleae him to wanting to feel good about herself. My dad never did mind; in fact he seemed proud that a tall woman would fall for him!


Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go