Jody adviced me to be available to W to listen to her to validate her feelings and boost her self esteem because it had been tranpled. She adviced me to contact her on occassion and ask her opinion on certain matters, when she gave it appreciate it and move on.
Honestly i don't do a lot of the contacting. When I feel stuck or too much time has gone by I will reach out. At some point I will stop that I think completely. i would say that the contact is prob around 80-20 her.
As far as the text maybe a different choice of words could have gone further, I was not meaning to sound sappy I was meaning to sound confident and strong in my conviction. I am letting her now that I am STANDING for us still.
You are in northern Cali? I owe you a bottle of wine for all your help.
You and Cat are right. My old M is dead I know that now and I can accept that. Truthfully she deserves a better version of me but I also deserve a better version of her.
