Don't worry whether it was a backslide or not.

It is just information. It tells you:

1) You need to tweak your DBing, you are having babysteps, but they may not be enough right now.

2) It isn't going to work for you to go at a conversation in this manner...so...now you know.

It's time to do SOMETHING different. That doesn't mean do everything differently (don't fix what isn't broken).


What do YOU think you need to do differently? What do YOU think your husband still needs to see from you?

What is not attractive enough in your situation...or what is more attractive in another situation to him?

Change THAT.

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