If I had to place a bet......I'd put it on the fact it was your W that did not want to draw attention to herself being taller than you. Whenever she wasn't seen "with" you, as a couple, it wouldn't make as much difference. I think when we get to be middle age, those things aren't that big of a deal anymore. Add that into her WAW syndrome, and you can take the factor of your height out of the plan altogether. (hugs)
Thanks Sandi. That helps. Of course these days she's "never" seen with me. It's so weird. I don't know how she can stand living here.
I'd say her WAW syndrome also has some MLC aspects to it. Otherwise there's no explaination how a seemingly moral person can forsake their faith and promises and pursue R with OM before at least giving LBS an ultimatum to try and mend the M & R.
I can only guess she's been secretly wanting to escape for an undeterminable length of time, to which I was blind - ignorance is bliss as they say. That's what happens when you take somethings for granted, though the blame is only half mine.
Like I said earlier, I have opened the cage, both literally and emotionally. Let's see how far she flies.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."