Doubt anyone will actually go through and read all that but I have included it anyway. If you do find time to read all that there is some GREAT advice from people on my threads.
Yes, there is, I agree. I suggest you start following some of it.
You write really well, 2step, but you've really not even captured the most basic tenets of DBing yet ("no pursuit", "no relationship talks," etc.). Your wife is playing you like a fiddle.
