She probably was wanting to hear you had not given up.
But was it because she wants to know you are still there waiting for her because it gives her options and an ego boost? Or because she's interesting in R?
I think consciously she's still more in the first option.
So why give her what she wants?
Is it what either of you need?
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2