......are these itty bitty baby steps?

[Sanderika]

Hi Cyrena,

Thank you very much for sharing your experience with us.

Thank you for taking the time to speak to me about my own feelings about my H and offering a different way to look at the situation.

I will always have regrets about that two year period of time in my life. I hope I have made up for my behavior to others ten-fold in the journey I have traveled and lessons I have learned along the way since.

I overcame my own selfish, I guess you could call it MLC, state of being and feel I have so much to offer others. I would not trade who I have become for anything I can think of. I would love to have my H back though.

I think the key solution to a lot of our problems would have been to realize and recognize we were dealing with a MLC in them sooner rather than later after they already had decided to leave us/children and home. Had we been able to see it emerge from the onset our lives most likely would have turned out very differently.

Thank you again for your support.

Sanderika