A, I think they all go through that phase, I know I read it somewhere. They want to come home but are afraid it won't work out. I know someone (can't remember who) told me that my H was afraid of that also. I guess that is normal for a MLCer.
I also know that feeling about them wanting to come home or at least get close again and then they get afraid and run which you know.
I will stand behind you no matter what you choose to do. But I really think we are a lot alike and we want our M to be saved, and if we came this far in waiting what is a little more time to see if they come out of the tunnel for good?
I know it doesn't seem like it but you are so much ahead of a lot of people on this board just by spending time with your XH. If I were you I would be thinking to myself, he is taking baby steps and might be on his way home again.
I do understand the ride, because I just said on my thread, I don't know how long I can stay on the ride. I'm getting so sick to my stomach. But I know how much I love H. I was really angry over the weekend and cursed him up and down to myself but then today, I calmed down and now I miss him. UGH!
