Originally Posted By: tdb68
Wife just called and said she got a new job this morning and is ready to move out.. Thinking about just giving up..I have fought the good fight.. Is now the time to talk to a coach?


You have to decide this. It isn’t over until you are ready for it to be over. There is still a lot of time and opportunities, moving out just changes the dynamic. Somewhere on this board I read filing the D is just step 2 out of a 100. I did not read the D had been filed.

Were you ever really able to apply LRT. IMO the physical separation caused by the move makes aspects of LRT easier.

IMO, when our spouses are truly on their own, when the clamor of their support group has settled and everyone is getting on with their lives then is the time the WAS is given the greatest opportunity to really look inside and examine the magnitude of their decision.

It is always a good time to talk to a coach.


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Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

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