Of course this is true, it goes against my idea of a totally committed M. I give my 100% to her and she gives her 100% to me. Her burden is mine and mine is hers. Maybe that is way old school it was the way i was brought up.
Hmmmmm.....
The way things are currently....
She is thinking her..
And you are thinking us...
Or are you thinking you, and how it could affect you ?
What is your reason behind wanting to control this ?