How long should you try? Until........

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Gritter:

It is not just about finances 2step

of course not. My point is looking forward IF I do save my M then this is just a logistical aspect. Nothing more. In the grand picture it means very little.

We all fall into patterns and take it from a recovering fixer/rescuer

And I am the worse

The best thing you can do is let her make her own mistakes and fix them herself.

This is tough. I realize you are right.

Cycling?

Now it is called cycling, before it was my constant state of mind. This shows progress