Actually, you are making a big assumption there. You don't actually have to deal with it together. You could keep separate accounts and that would be her financial issue to deal with.
Of course this is true, it goes against my idea of a totally committed M. I give my 100% to her and she gives her 100% to me. Her burden is mine and mine is hers. Maybe that is way old school it was the way i was brought up.
I understand your point.
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Trust her to figure it out for herself. Even if you think she is making a mistake, trust her to learn from it.
This is very true. She needs to make her own choices and I can't be a part of them or be affected by them.
