Yes, I agree with this. When W dropped her bomb and I stood there in stunned silence attempting to process it she began to go through the mental checklist she uses for grief consoling. She is a nurse in a long term care facility so she has had practice. As she did so she explained to me she had made her decision weeks ago and had already moved to acceptance. So when she walked out the door 5 days later she was detached.
Since then she has cycled a bit as we all have so the detachment isn’t complete. Sadly the cycling give me a little hope she isn’t as done with me as she thought.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill