I am scared. I'm scared of the future. I'm scared of losing everything I have loved. I'm scared of the unknown.
The future is unknown regardless of whether or not you are with you W. You reconcile... the future is unknown. She could leave you again 6 months from now or 20 years from now... or you could decide to leave her... or worse things could happen.
You don't reconcile your M... the future is unknown. You could D and remarry your W 6 months from now or 20 years from now... or not. You may find someone else to love... you may not.... or worse things could happen.
Get it?
Originally Posted By: Country_Song
The easier path becomes tempting.
Ok... 2x4 for ya. IMO you're not doing yourself any favors by going on dates right now. This sh!t is confusing enough for us. By adding additional factors and temptations, you are actually making things more difficult for yourself.
You're clearly not ready to consider a new R... so why go down that path? For personal validation? Why do you need that? Can you be happy without that? If not, why not???
The easier path is not always the RIGHT path Country.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce