1) The one year mark came and went with (so far) no attempt on her part to file for divorce. She could legally have done so a few weeks ago.
2) To put #1 above in context, when we discussed her tax problems at one point she [meekly] mentioned that, "Hey, maybe it would be better if we did something about this so we don't have to deal with these tax problems next year." My response was, "I still love you. My position hasn't changed. If that's something you want, it is entirely depends on your choice and actions. But, I want no part of it." After some time passes, she replies with, "I don't know. Maybe I'll just change my tax with-holding so at least I can break even."
3) To put #1 AND #2 in context, when I told her I still love her, etc... I also VERY bluntly told her that is completely free to choose her own path in life, but that I will NOT allow that idiot in China [her EA partner, the guy I call DJ] to have anything to do with either of our children's lives. Her reply was, "That sound like a threat." I replied back, "It's not to you Kitty. I love you. But, if you still talk to him, you can tell him to stay the hell away from both of our kids. If you consider that a threat to him, then so be it."
Fast forward a few weeks and we're enrolling our daughter in a Christian school, and she's calling me 'husband' on the phone...
