Cat let me get right to it. I have a small new update to post but wanted to respond first
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Yea...I am sure you are really saying that to yourself
ABOSOLUTELY glad you are back. I don't run from the 2x4's just ask Michelle. She gives me a weekly dose. I embrace them.
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This fear is holding you hostage.
I agree. It is. An emotion that i am learning to control.
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I will repeat it, the old marriage is already GONE
Yes. I don't want that old M at all. This is something I keep telling myself and slowly it is sinking in. I want something new something better.
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One of my mistakes, was thinking that all I needed to do, was reconcile the marriage. With little thought was to happen after the reconciliation happened.
I think that the reconsiliation is actually the tougher part. Most people jump back in too soon and never really learn anything while apart. I know that this is a danger we all have. What I need to do is exactly what I have been told to do. Focus on myself and the let the chips fall where they fall. Easier said than done but at least I see it.
