Hope, this was posted originally by Mr. Bond in VSD’s thread “Turned a corner” You know your sitch better than I. IDK if this could help but as gr8 day 2B alive said it sets a boundary. Setting a boundary you can live by helps. IMO you are getting abused.
Originally Posted By: gr8 day 2B alive
Originally Posted By: Mr Bond
You see how quickly he turned things around to make it that YOU are the one hurting him?
IMO, this is what you should do. The next time he starts spewing, when it gets out of hand, hold your hand up and say that you don't appreciate being talked to like that and will be happy to revisit the issue when things are less emotional. Then walk out.
You have to show him that you are going to be the strong one from now on. Not him.
I agree. This will establish your boundary. It will also earn you more respect.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
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