You do realize that this "new" M your XH is in is doomed don't you? Pregnant or not pregnant. And forced structure is yet another setup for failure. He will begin to feel trapped. It's not going to be the "fix" for all his past problems especially if he hasn't dealt with them. Problems are portable and no new relationship, clothes, apt, baby etc. is EVER going to solve his demons. He is going to have growing resentment towards the new W and perhaps the baby. I have a distinct feeling that if she is preganant it was on purpose. Women who suffer from that much insecurity plot to keep their man in anyway possibly. It's a very self-centered attitude and the child suffers in the end. Men don't want and like to be manipulated. A child is not the glue that holds any relationship/M together.
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
