Hey Left: Your argument with your wife about the money sound just like mine. Yea when my wife started off the asset thing with the divorce, it too threw me off. I did not want to work on it at her time. I wanted my own. Wife did not like it and kept pestering me. But i began to realize that there's no other way and have to finish it off.
About the hug, yea that can be confusing. Here's my take. Could be wrong. Could it be that she's detached. So her hugging you is just saying it's okay we had this argument because it does not matter for her anymore?
My wife too always kept saying that she did not want to fight with me. The last day when she left, even though emotions were high, she was sweet and hugged me and all. Now i realize that she was so detached that she started considering me as 'some guy' and not her husband.
I dont know. I could be wrong.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...