Originally Posted By: LearningPatience
Sparks,
it sounds like you are doing a great job w/ your S! That first illness in your first child is tough no matter how much you expect it. Don't get me started on ear infections...ugh!

You're still better off venting here than trying to explain to W how her actions are affecting everything. The fog WAS are in seems to be impervious to logic, though I think they do understand somewhere inside. Just work on being the best you that you can be and it should show through to your W.


Thanks, LP. I am doing my best with my S. I love him very much and want to give him everything I have.

I know venting here is the only way to go. Explaining this to her right now will go nowhere fast and probably do more harm than good. I will stick with my plan and take care of myself.


Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated