How do you trust someone who isn't sorry?

[zengypsy]

((((HOPE))))) It's nice to see your back. I've missed you. Just caught up and I was hoping (no pun intended) that you have been off for a while because you were piecing. I see now that has not been the case.

Man, this rollercoaster ride [censored]. I know our self-centered WAH's will one day have regret about their decision. You just can't keep going thru life with having no accountability ever. Your a$$ is going to get burned each and every time.

WE are going to be the stronger ones in the end. We have recognized our role in the downward spiral of our marriage and have taken action. Just as YOU have trust issues so do they. I mean I know in my sitch that if I were my H, I wouldn't trust me either at this point. After all the repeated empty promises I made and now I've had this sudden epiphany thru therapy and the DB book? I know my actions will now support my words, but he isn't in that mindset. I just have to keep representing myself better each and every day. I think that's what we all need to do. We are on a jounrey to keep this behavior modification going and I think our WAH's are looking for us to fail. Not on purpose, but just because we have been unsuccesful before. I think if we ALL can stick with our changes, that will be the biggest 180 we can do and we will so prove them wrong that they will be begging us for another chance.