SIC, i dont think i commented on your sitch, but i have been following it.
I understand what you mean when you say "I can't believe this is happening" . I get up every day with this feeling. It is the worst feeling in the world.
Just like you and punchy, I really am getting to the point where i might actually be 'happy' once our divorce is over. It will leave me free to search for a better person. But i feel horrible when i get this thought as i still love my wife and would love for us to bring up our lil daughter well.
Thanks Karma, I'm not sure what will actually bring me "happiness"? At this point I'm not sure if either option will ACTAULLY bring me happiness. Like I addressed to Punchy, I worry that even if we reconcile there will always be the potential for her "walk-away" again.
Does anyone have a good response to how my W can find love for me again? It seems to be her major road block right now - because obviously she has a fantasy attachment to "how" love is supposed to happen.
Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011
