Originally Posted By: Truegritter

Now you know "why" and have a vague idea of "what" is keeping you from being the man you aspire to be.

What is keeping you from meeting your goal?

I would BUT this.

I would BUT that.

I would BUT _______.





I would BUT...
It's too hard.
I'm too tired.
I can't do it.
It isn't worth it.
It'll never work.
Why do I have to.
Just leave me alone.
I don't care.


I would BUT...

I can't really trust you
you're probably going to hurt me
I hate needing people
I hate disappointing people
I'm afraid


I would BUT...

There really is no point.
It really isn't worth it.
I just don't feel like doing it
Why do I always have to be the one
It's not my fault
I shouldn't have to
I don't deserve this
I have other things to do
I don't really want to

Originally Posted By: Truegritter


NOW.

Is your opportunity.

You didn't ask for this tragedy.

It is here and it is an opportunity to change your life.

Growth is painful Busting...

Time to get busy.

How?

Laser shots. What you don't like. Specific behavior. Ways you act. Choices you make. Fears you harbor. Words you speak.

Hunt them down and kill them.



Today's targets:

Denial. Avoidance. Procrastination.
Disorganization.
Helplessness.

Figure I'll give myself a bunch of targets packed closely together so that I'm bound to hit something while focusing on being even happier and more effective today.

Thanks again, True.

You are AWESOME!


I am being the possibility of:

1) Integrity
2) Loving myself completely.
3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.

"It's do-able." What are the actions now?