My 2 cents here is that if you have the ability to financially detach start doing it immediately.
You need a strong sense of certainty and control in your life and right now it appears you are way too needy and dependent.
Accept the truth that right now he is not acting like a husband or a caring and committed partner.
Until he is, detach, detach, detach.
In every way possible.
That is the best chance you have of attracting him back to you for real, but far more importantly, it is the best chance you have to become true and happy within yourself.
I am being the possibility of:
1) Integrity 2) Loving myself completely. 3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.
