Wow GAG, thanks so much for that summary.....I really want to get that book now!! And yes, of course you can post here. Invitations through the kids struck a chord and the lack of initiation too. I've definitely heard move on with your life and I'm not right for you, you deserve better.
Rabbit, thanks for the birthday wishes. So not sure what's going on here!!!! Anyway, I can only deal with one day at a time and I certainly have no expectations although I am concerned that the next Ms Perfect will be on the doorstep soon. H is pretty quiet and not overly social but it didn't stop him last time.
H hasn't told me she's still here or gone; he hasn't even told me she's moved out. I think while he doesn't broach that topic it gives him time and space.
H is looking at come to D's major meet in a few weeks. that will be interesting. I am just concerned that I provide a safe haven for him for that and then I get shoved into the background again; as if I've served my purpose. I am considering telling him that so he knows I have reservations.
