So a couple of days ago Beckie the WAW decided to take me up on my offer of a DB coaching session.

She said "it couldn't hurt" and decided to attend.

I made the stupid mistake of calling back and asking for even more after she has agreed and nearly undid all my progress, but redeemed myself a little with some birthday gifts that she told me left her speechless.

She had told me to set up the appointment for either the 15th, 16th or 17th.

I didn't want to wait two weeks and set up an appointment for a few days later instead, but I made a mistake on her schedule and so she wasn't able to attend our appointment yesterday.

But everything happens for a reason, and I reasoned that whether Beckie was there or not, it would be a good use of time and money to have the appointment myself.

I wasn't disappointed.

I have spoken to 4 different DB coaches, including Michelle, and all of them are...Heaven sent.

IMHO If you have not spoken to any of them yet you are doing yourself and your marriage a great disservice.

WAY worth the money!

Good news is today I am not only certain of my next steps, for the first time in weeks, I am feeling truly hopeful for our marriage.

We can do this!


I am being the possibility of:

1) Integrity
2) Loving myself completely.
3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.

"It's do-able." What are the actions now?