Man I'm feeling great right now.

Past few days have been revealing and cathartic.

First thing I want to say is I cannot afford to slip like I have the past two times...

Where after I have made such massive progress in providimg evidence to change her beliefs, clearly seeing her turning and finally coming around...

And then only to force and control and push her yet again, thereby confirming her old beliefs that I will never change...

That is simply no longer going to happen.

Instead, she initiates. I respond.

Acknowledge
Validate
Listen
Rephrase
Listen
Listen and validate some more.

Acknowledge and validate.
Acknowledge and validate.
Acknowledge and validate.

And facilitate her to say more.

I am being the possibility of:

1) Integrity
2) Loving myself completely.
3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.

"It's do-able." What are the actions now?