Today my wife and I started talking about the mail...just casual talk. And our son comes over and says, "Stop talking, mommy." And my wife remarks, "Yes, I know, you don't like it when mommy and daddy talk, huh?"

FYI, our son would say those words when we used to get into arguments. And now it seems like we can't even have a normal conversation in front of him. What irks me more is, if you can tell from my wife's remarks above, that she may be feeling validated for her decision to leave because hey, there's no way mommy and daddy can EVER have a decent conversation again, so what's the point?


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112