well...the internet connection at my job this morning seems flaky...not sure if it'll drop out completely so gotta get those positives out there..!
1. Lunch with h -- a big deal to me that he suggested it and it gave us an opportunity -- he told me that he'd been feeling down about being sick and that it had brightened his day to see me. He said last night that his plan is to join me for lunch 1x/week until he gets a job!
Note that h and ow used to lunch together frequently....it gives me a chance to face some of my fears and eradicate some ghosts.
2. h was very attentive last night. spent a while asking me about my job. I asked him for some advice on how to handle a situation and he was great (and flattered?) about that. some good things have been happening at my job this week and for the company so h suggested a celebration tonight!
3. during lunch h said "I'd really like to make lots of plans for this weekend" then proceeded to talk about hiking, movies, dinners, etc. he's been pretty blah about initiating plans of late...so this is great.
4. I got tons and tons of hugs and kisses from him when I got home from work.
5. we watched a movie that he'd been telling me about for a while...I love it when he shares his interests with me.
6. we sat on the couch and did the NYT xword puzzle together!
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
