I agree that doesn't really sound like a backslide.
Conversation might not have gone exactly as you felt it shouldawouldacoulda, but that's no reason to beat yourself up about it.
If you like, you might try walking through the conversation again to see what you would have done differently to remind yourself for next time, but personally I'd just let it go and confidently move on.
I am being the possibility of:
1) Integrity 2) Loving myself completely. 3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.
