Grr. I don't think you backslid. I think your H just does not know or understand what he wants. He obviously is making baby steps to stay in your family's life. That tells me that he has some feelings towards being there.
Keep it up! You are making great progress!
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated